Q&A
In March 2009, we interviewed and videoed James Frey sourcing all our questions from twitter and this website. Below are the three videos of James’ answers and also a general Q&A.
What are you listening to at the moment?
Soundtrack to a documentary called American Hardcore. Some Bob Dylan. Some AC/DC.
Do you like living in New York?
Most of the time. New York is an amazing city, certainly the cultural center of America, and maybe the world. There is great art, great food, great music, great people. Only things I dislike about it are the winters and certain aspects of living there as a public figure.
How do you feel about the drinking and drug culture there?
I don’t really think about it. People drink and do drugs everywhere. I don’t judge people for doing either, and I neither seek out people who drink and do drugs, nor avoid them.
How did you vote in the last election?
I voted for the guy who lost.
What are you reading at the moment?
Just read the final Harry Potter. Before that, Clockers by Richard Price. Before that, Freedomland by Richard Price. Before that Falling Man by Don DeLillo.
If you could do one thing in your life differently what would it be?
I’m fine with my life. Wouldn’t change a fucking thing.
What are you most proud of?
My wife and my daughter.
Do you consider yourself to be happy?
Yeah, I am. I have a great family, great friends, I love what I do.
What’s the best piece of advice anyone has ever given you?
If you care about what other people think, you will always be their prisoner.
How do you feel about your work being described as inspirational?
My goal was to create literature. If the work inspires people or helps them in some way, I think it’s a beautiful thing.
Do you prefer writing books to screenplays?
Absolutely. I just wrote a film for director Tony Scott about the Hell’s Angels. It is most likely the last screenplay I will ever write. The only reason I even did it was because it was him, and I dig his work, and because I got to hang out with the Hell’s Angels. Tony was great, but usually the process is too collaborative, in a destructive, unproductive way. With books, I do what I want, how I want, and they either succeed or fail because of what I do.
What has been your worst job so far?
Worst is a relative term. Being a writer has been incredible, and at times very difficult, very trying.
How do you feel about being famous?
Fame is also a relative term. I’m really happy that I’m widely read, published in thirty-one languages, millions of books sold. The goal has always been to write books that have enough power to continue to be read long after I’m gone, to become part of history in some way. I could care less about fame in the manner of celebrity.
You made your position of AA and twelve step programmes very clear in A Million Little Pieces, do you still feel this way?
AA and the twelve steps do an immense amount of good in the world. I think they’re great. As far as applying them to my own life, or living by their tenants, I absolutely still feel the same way.
Do you think some are more susceptible to addiction than others?
Yeah, though why that is is a subject of debate. There is certainly some genetic component, but I believe there are also environmental factors.
What do you spend your money on?
Lawyers.
What is your greatest extravagance?
Art.
What do you think about the way addiction is portrayed in literature?
Sometimes really well, sometimes really bad, sometimes really silly. All depends on who is doing it.
Which contemporary writers do you admire?
Many, but Norman Mailer and Brett Easton Ellis are probably the two I most admire.
Who has been the biggest influence on your life?
Probably Henry Miller, or Lao Tsu.
How do you feel about your child reading your books?
When she’s old enough, and if she has any interest in reading them, I’m all for it.
Ha! Very telling answer to ‘what he spends his money on’ …
—polly (2008-02-14 17:24:23)
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James, your writing has inspired me (as countless others) to confront some addictions. The Tao Tse Ching has been particularly inspirational, thanks to your references in AMLP. No doubt, battling these demons are a bitch. I’ve gone back and forth, but recently finding out that I am going to be a father feels like it will be the catalyst to conquer this shit for good.
What was it for you?
—Shane (2008-05-17 11:06:28)
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Were the characters of Lilly and Leonard and everyone in the Unit in A million little pieces real? the relationship with Lilly affected me very deeply….
—Steph (2008-06-16 19:24:12)
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I am an American living for the 20 years in China. I found BSM in a local bookstore. I had no idea that you were the same guy who caused such a controversy with Oprah until after reading BSM. I found BSM brilliant, entertaining and a down right page turner. Frankly, I do not care about what you made up or didn’t in the previous book. After discovering who you were by going to amazon to see what else you might have written, it does not change the fact that I found the writing brilliant. I read 2-3 books a week. Your style was refreshing, the information (whether accurate or not) interesting and the characters compelling. Thank you for writing BSM. I am passing this cherished copy along to friends here in Shanghai.
Charles
—Charles (2008-06-17 10:20:58)
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I love James Frey’s style of writing….to hell with the critics, to hell with Oprah…your style is unique and refreshing…thank you for another fantastic book in Bright Shiny Morning…when is the next?
Kelly
—Kelly (2008-07-19 17:00:27)
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I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU KELLY…I LOVED THE BOOK AND WHO IS SHE?? LIKE SHE’S MISS PERFECT.
—KAREN (2009-03-07 07:45:39)
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When I picked up A Million Little Pieces in the shop, I didn’t realise it was a true story, let alone a memoir. By the time I realised, I was SO into it. I read it constantly for a while, heartbroken by the fact that it was truth. I can honestly say that I’ve never been so affected by a book before - I was crushed, mind-blown, devastated and sad. Then I came to the ending, and I pretty much started crying on the bus. I was absolutely devastated. All the people that surrounded James in his time of need were gone, all tragically. By this point, I felt like I knew them too. It stung. But what I feel most of all is relief that at least one person can get through all the bad and come out of it good. It gives me nothing but hope that James got through what he did and emerges as nothing short of an inspiration for people everywhere, whether they are an addict, know an addict or have never touched drugs. I feel like I know James, and that feeling feels privileged. Thank you for opening my eyes and my world.
—Rebecca (2008-08-04 11:27:32)
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James:
You may remember me. You wrote my girlfriend, who is now my wife, when she had cancer and you told her to kick it’s ass. She did. She carried that note around with her. That’s why I wasn’t and never will be mad at you for the Oprah debauchle. She’s terrible anyway. Just wanted to say hello and tell you that Jamie and I loved loved loved the new book. Obviously, we were upset about Dylan and Maddie, but oh well. It was a brilliant read.
—Steven Woods (2008-08-18 18:33:03)
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James:
I just got out of detox an hour ago i’d say. I spent all of my free time reading a million little pieces. I read the whole book while I was in there. I was amazed with your honesty. People need to hear more truth when it comes to addiction. I seen alot of myself in you and the actions you took while you were on drugs and alcohol. You are truly an inspiration. Thank you.
—kate (2008-08-24 20:14:46)
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James, just wanted to say how much I have enjoyed your three books. I sat down and read all three just recently and I’m sorry I waited so long. You truly are one of my favourite authors now and I wish I had have picked you up long ago. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Extraordinary……
—Tina (2008-08-26 08:53:46)
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Hey james
Im 14 years old and I have read all your books. I have laughed, cried, dreamed all from reading your books. A milllion little pices was the first ever story I have read and the only reason I read it was because everyone else had and they all liked it. I couldnt put the book down it was my drug and i was addicted. but then it finished and I felt empty so I made my mum go and get me my friend leonard which I loved. Leonard is so funny his such a character and I didnt like him dying it made me so sad I couldnt stop crying. Then I read bright shinny morning I liked it but there were parts were I was like come on I dont really care about all this crap. and I hated maddies and dylans ending did he live or die? I love your style of writting.
keep up the good work. I need anouther book to read
—georgia (2008-08-29 11:49:13)
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what inspired you to start writing? big fan of your books and work
—Jacob Brunette (2008-09-17 14:49:27)
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James Frey, I love your books so much! I have read A Million Little Pieces and My Friend Leonard. They were both amazing. Now I have started Bright Shiny Morning, and it is very interesting. However, I just wanted to say that your style of writing I absoultely love. I can never just put your books down after lik 20 or 30 pages. I have to just keep reading. They have made such an impact on me and I hope that you just keep on writing because I will keep buying all of your books
—Amylynn (2008-11-21 23:05:23)
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thank you james for making the world a better place with your novels. all your books had a big impact on me, especially my friend leonard. thanks. i cant wait for your next book to come out.
—brad (2008-11-05 01:18:29)
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My friends
I’m drunk, for the first time in a while, I’m smoking a cigarette, for the first time in a month, and I feel compelled to write to you, and thank you, for sending me that book.
For the first time in a long, long while I have read a book from beginning to end. Last night Liam woke at half two, I woke up as did Suzy. I couldn’t sleep, I went downstairs. I picked up the book you sent me, read the first page and devoured the entire thing in one sitting, completely unable to stop reading, making tea with the book in one hand, burning my fingers on the hot teabags without noticing, immersed completely, hypnotized, addicted you could say.
Al, what you wrote in the front cover - you’re right bud, and how strangely fitting also. For me, to go from consuming, mindlessly, drugs at first, then booze, then to become a dad and a partner, and go from one ‘bible’ to another - it’s so cliched but yet so very true. I’ve read a few books in my time, but I must say that is without a doubt, not a shred, the most powerful and incredible story I’ve ever read. I talked about it at work, recommended it to people who will never read a book in their lifetimes, but still I enthused like a kid reading the fucking Hobbit for the first time. Bloody hell. Shit, I even cried while finishing the book, half because of Lilly’s suicide, half because I’d finished it and couldn’t read it ‘virginally’.
Sorry if I sound ridiculous, I’m just overjoyed to find the, well, joy a book can bring again. It’s been a long time of steel and dirt up on the site surrounded by hardbooted men and their harsh words, you’ve helped me find the simple pleasures I used to have, reading and losing myself in a story.
Thankyou.
Have a great Christmas guys, I can’t wait to see you both again.
Pedro.
That’s my reaction to the very good friend who sent me this bbook - can’t dress it up any more than that - tbh I don’t want to dress it up any more. This thing took me by surprise , blindsided me, smashed my face in and robbed me of coherent thought for some early morning hours. I loved it, cried, laughed more than cried, read, drank tea, loved it. Thankyou man, thankyou.
—Pedro (2008-12-12 23:25:17)
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Reading your book as the love of my life was spending his time in rehab- opened my eyes to see what it must be like for him and everyone else. Everyperson has a diffren’t view and they experiance didn’t things, but when he came back eighteen months later, he told me things i dreaded hearing because of the book. Because what I thought was writen in the book was a false statement, but it’s just like that. The friends he made and fear he felt some nights, he said it was indescribable. I don’t know what my perspective on life would be if I never read the book a million little peices and I did so by fluke. I liked the cover so I grabbed it for english. I never thought I’d fall in love with your writing style and how open you are with it. I give your work more then five stars. And I hope a movie comes from it. It would be an amazing tale of how heroic an ordinary person can be.
—Hanna (2009-03-03 08:13:10)
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I DON’T KNOW IF YOU WILL EVEN GET THIS EMAIL…BUT JUST WANTED TO TELL U I READ A MILLION LITTLE PIECES,,,,IT WAS RAW AND REAL, IT HELD MY ATTENTION FROM START TO FINISH, I COULD RELATE ESPECIALLY BECAUSE AT THAT TIME I LOVED A MAN VERY MUCH WHO WAS ON CRACK.
I WAS APPALED THE WAY OPRAH TREATED U ON HER SHOW AND AFTER THAT I KNOW LONGER WATCH HER. WHAT SHE’S PERFECT?? I SAY “WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES” MS. WINFRY AND THEN YOU JUDGE ME….HAVEN’T READ YOUR LATEST BOOK YET BUT DEFINITELY PLAN ON IT I SUFFER FROM DEPRESSION AND GET IN THESE SLUMPS…ANYWAY
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND GOD BLESS YOU, YOUR WIFE AND DAUGHTER.
—KAREN (2009-03-07 07:41:15)
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Hi James, just found out that that you have cancelled coming to waterstones in liverpool. i was looking forward to talking to you about your amazing well written addictive book! These thing’s happen i suppose keep up the good work.
Regards.
James B
—james beck (2009-03-09 17:34:02)
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jamesybeck@hotmail.co.uk
—james beck (2009-03-09 17:34:31)
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thank you
—... (2009-03-14 15:39:25)
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Does James Frey plan on writing any more books? They are AMAZING!
—Leanna (2009-03-17 15:53:09)
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Great taste in music James. Just saw AcDc in Dublin the other night they were amazing, 2nd best gig ever just behind Robert Plant and just ahead of Macca!
—Stephen (2009-04-20 21:48:14)
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I am reading A Million Little Pieces at the moment - I am not even finished yet but this is without a doubt the best book I have ever read. Ok, so I’m only 27, but honestly, I am in love. I have a had a pretty rough year and have been lower than I ever thought I could be and because of that people suggested for me not to read it right now but I am and am so so glad I did. I has really helped me in many ways. Thanks James. Eva x
—Eva Jordan (2009-04-24 10:12:57)
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Also, I don’t care if its exaggerated or fabricated - its just really fucking good.
—Eva Jordan (2009-04-24 10:20:54)
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James, i have just now finished reading A Million Little Pieces. I wish this were a more private email, but it is not. My 18 year old sister knew of this: i just discovered this 3 days ago, and I wanted to thank you. After reading this, I looked up the info, to mail you, and saw all the drama that followed around you and i think its all bullshit. whether all this stuff is true or not, who cares? you have touched alot of people, addicts, bad asses, alcoholics–whoever. You have touched my soul and mind and heart, and if i ever chose to read the 12 step book, it would be this instead, and that is all there is to it. I am quite sure that the people who have responded negatively to this book, or any of your life stories, whether fake or real, are just afraid of the truth, and cannot look them self in the eye. Simple. I admire all of your sadness, your feelings, your hurts, but mostly the fact that you are man enough to write a book about these things.
—mertyl (2009-04-28 04:00:26)
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Hi there,
My name is Mary Anne Parker and I went to see James at The Miller’s academy last month. He signed a copy of a book for me and I was half way through reading it when…
A Hollywood actor took me on a date. Got very drunk and said he needed to pop home for his credit card as he had left it there. His flat was across from the restaurant in Notting Hill and low and behold when I arrived he locked me in and wouldn’t let me leave - verbatim. I had to escape through a window I left a shoe, a jacket…but most importantly my book Bright Shiny Morning had fallen from my bag in the climb down the drain pipe.
I am happy to pay for another copy but I really need James to sign it again as he referred to me moving to LA in a personal message and then signed it.
Please let me know if this is possible? As for the book well this story is living proof of the truth behind those glistening Hollywood stars
—mary parker (2009-05-04 16:37:36)
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Hello james. I am a 42 year old los angeles native that is enjoying your take on la life in your book bright shiny morning.
I am currently on page 141, and although I found your general disgust of the 10 fwy strange, your failure to list the 405 as the
truly evil piece of shit that it is 24 hours a day was strange. Alas, it must be due to your lack of wasting 42 years of your own life
in traffic on the 405 as I have.
Ok, on to my beef. Pch has never and will never ever be known as “the pch”.
It is simply pch. Period. How this got by you, I do not know. Ask anyone here, no
one calls pch “the pch”. Nope. Doesn’t happen,
I applaud your lack of puncuation in bright shiny morning, as you can see I
am a fan of just saying fuck it and writing however I choose.
I think you are a very talented man.
—vanessa (2009-05-06 10:18:59)
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i just finished reading A Million Little Pieces and My Friend Leonard. i cant wait to read Bright Shiny Morning and any other books you write. I dont usually like reading but once i started i couldnt put the books down!! and now i’ve got a lot of my friends reading them to. I was devastated when Lilly died, i was reading at work and i actually cried lol. They were great books, i didnt want them to end. Your a great writer!
—Roisin (2009-05-07 07:53:48)
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Hey James,
Can’t wait to meet you this coming Thursday in Pasadena! I’m a huge fan and will be driving up from San Diego to show my support.
With gratitude,
Liza
—Liza Zamora (2009-05-19 07:08:03)
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Hi james
I just wanted to let you know that after reading A Million Little Pieces two years ago, I was inspired to write a song about it. At the time I was greatly moved and it seemed a natural response to the emotions you made me feel. If you would like to, you can listen to it at http://www.thespeedwellinvention/myspace.com and maybe even honour us by letting us know if you liked it.
Thanks
Adam
—Adam Coombs (2009-05-20 16:38:32)
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I very much enjoyed reading ‘A Million Little Pieces’ a few years ago.
Something I tried to obtain is: Which translation of the ‘Tao Te King’ does Frey cite (in the book he describes, that he got it as a present from his brother)
I read a lot of translations to english and german, but never came across one which made as much sense as the one Frey cites in his book.
If anybody can help me with this, please mail!
THX a lot
Mercurio
—Mercurio (2009-05-22 22:54:59)
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I have just finished Bright Shiny Morning last night and all I can say is AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING! I’ve never been more sad to finish a book because all I wanted was more. I completed A Million Little Pieces & My Friend Leonard in one sitting each and BSM was everything I hoped it would be and more. Your writing is phenomenal and I will wait patiently for the next one.
Regardless of what might be true or false, a good book is a good book. I feel sorry for people that let what they hear in the media get in the way of experiencing your work.
Best wishes to you and your family!
—Alexis (2009-06-13 17:42:10)
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the only book I ever finished reading in a week, it’s beautifully poetical+philosophical having experience with my son who was addicted, now I understand more abt the addicts. I feel like writing the pains of parents who went thru it. I was wondering did James Frey scribbled something before the tittle page and also at page 427, did they mean something? The scribbles are similiar,the last one is bigger than the first one. Please tell me
—S.H.Simanjuntak (2009-06-19 02:59:59)
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